Episode 309: Accepting a lousy option

When you are truly stuck with a lousy option and need to accept it, what process can you follow?

First, acknowledging the frustration. The grief. The loss. Second,  trying to keep the finger-pointing and blame to a minimum.  Backward-looking “if onlys” don’t help. Third, trying to keep the focus on the future. Whatever that was now going to be.  If there were lessons to be learned, trying to absorb them with grace and intention. Finally, keeping priorities clear. If the relationships matter, doing what needs to be done to repair and strengthen them.

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