Episode 186: Competing and accommodating, two of the five TKI conflict modes

The TKI describes five different approaches to conflict. And those five are always available to each of us. They are accommodating, avoiding, collaborating, competing, and compromising.   Competing is power-driven, with a focus on one’s own needs at the expense of the other person’s. Accommodating is the polar opposite: putting someone else’s needs above one’s own. Neither is always the right approach, nor always the wrong one.  The value of the TKI is helping you understand which modes you tend to use, which you use best, and considering whether you are underusing or overusing any of them. Learn more at:

https://kilmanndiagnostics.com/overview-thomas-kilmann-conflict-mode-instrument-tki/

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